Shemale Dating – What’s the Difference Between a Cross-Dresser and a Shemale

Cross Dresser Shemale Dating   Whats the Difference Between a Cross Dresser and a ShemaleI was just scanning some of the profiles on a transsexual dating site  and I came across one that was very interesting. The profile was of a male cross-dresser named Jessy and I decided that Jessy’s profile would present and excellent opportunity to explain the difference between a cross-dresser and a shemale. Here is an excerpt from Jessy’s profile:

hello my name is jessy i am part time cross-dresser I do not take any hormones. I do not want to be a woman. Most of the Time i am a regular guy. I would like to know other girls tv or CDs. I am very friendly. I like to wear sexy clothes, lingerie, stockings and high heels all kinds of boots and sexy dresses. I go out sometimes but not always. I’d like to meet people like me I consider myself straight I feel no attraction to the male body

First of all, I have to say that Jessy has a fine looking feminine body for someone who considers himself to be a “regular guy” and his butt is absolutely gorgeous.  A lot of shemales would kill to have a butt like that and even I’m kind of jealous : )~

Anyway Jessy’s profile description is the epitome of what a cross-dresser is. Generally speaking most cross-dressers are heterosexuals who live their lives a typical guy except for their interest in dressing up as a female at various times. They derive erotic psychological pleasure from dressing as women. I can totally understand this. Female fashion is so much more diverse and erotically alluring than male fashion.

Shemales on the other hand are born  male but engage in a process to transform themselves into transgendered women and live the rest of their lives that way.

There are cross-dressers who are homosexual and unfortunately some of them like to pretended to be shemales to trick guys who are interested in dating  shemales. So to avoid confusion and potentially embarrassing situations don’t be afraid to ask someone if they self-identify as a transgender female and not a cross-dresser. I’d say most of the time you’ll be able tell without asking because most cross-dressers are not passable as female but just in case there is any doubt, it does not hurt to ask.

If you happen to have an interest in cross-dressing and/or would like to meet cross-dressers, there is nothing at all wrong with that.  You can easily find them a DateACrossdresser.com.

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Dee
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Dating Older Shemales – Challenges Faced by Older Transsexuals Exposed in Transamerica

Transamerica 210x300 Dating Older Shemales   Challenges Faced by Older Transsexuals Exposed in TransamericaI am sure you have a heard stories about middle-aged men engulfed in mid-life crisis paranoia desperately seeking to regain the excitement of youth by various means such as hair replacement therapy, botox treatments working out and buying an expensive sports car so that they can attract gorgeous young women half their age. This kind of activity has almost become a cliche in our society for both middle-aged men and women who are called “sugar daddys” or “cougars” respectively.

In rare instances the male mid-life crises manifests itself by men realizing that they are really women who have been trapped in a male body their entire lives and they embark on a mission to become the woman they were always meant to be.

Initiating transsexual transition later in life is fraught with challenges. For many reasons it is much more difficult for older men to successfully make the transgender transformation and become aesthetically passable as women than it is for those who begin the transition early in life.

There is a very good movie called Transamerica that does an excellent job of exposing the plight of older transsexuals as well as the issues facing transsexuals in general. I highly recommend that you watch Transamerica because you will learn a lot about transsexualism in a fun, touching and entertaining way. As I have mentioned before, if you are serious about dating transgender women, investing some time to learn about transsexualism and transgender issues will give you a huge advantage over guys who don’t.

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Dee
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Jenna Talackova Will Be Allowed To Compete in Miss Universe – Canada

After throwing a hissy fit about being disqualified from competing in Miss Universe Canada Jenna Talackova hired  super heavyweight lawyer, Gloria Allred, to intimidate Donald Trump into allowing her to compete. Her plan has apparently been successful and Miss Universe Canada officials released a statement tentatively conceding that Jenna will be allowed to compete. This is a good time for me share my opinion on this affair. You can read the full story by clicking  here.

First, I offer thanks to everyone that voted in the Jenna Talackova poll and especially those to took the time share a comment. Now, what I am about to say is going to be a big surprise to everyone because my feelings are contrary to popular opinion. I have been a rebel and non-conformist all my life and I am not going to change now.

The pageant was justified in its original decision to disqualify Jenna. Why? Because Jenna is NOT A WOMAN, PERIOD! I as a transsexual myself I have too much love and admiration for divine femininity and my genetic female sisters to accept the notion that a transsexual should ever be considered equivalent to a natural born woman – the bearer of life. Natural born femininity is something we long for, but can never truly achieve.  As much as we feel like women, look like women  and  sound like women, at the end of day we are NOT women.  We’re certainly not men either although our genetic composition is male.  We are different! We are in a unique nether world in between the the male to female polarities and I believe that is something very beautiful and worthy of celebrating in an of itself. Therefore, I cannot and do not support Jenna Talackova in this matter.

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Dee
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Transgendered Woman Disqualified from Miss Universe Canada

Jenna Talackova 300x199 Transgendered Woman Disqualified from Miss Universe CanadaWow, what an intriguing story. I meant to write about this much sooner but I had some problems with my computer that delayed me.  Anyway, a  transgendered woman by the name of Jenna Talackova was recently disqualified from the Miss Universe Canada Pageant sponsored by Donald Trump after her transgendered status was exposed. She claims her disqualification was a human rights violation and she is planning to sue the pageant. Jenna is a post-op transsexual and she appears on the right the photo above.

I’d really like to get some opinions about this matter. I created a new poll which you can find in sidebar to the right. I’d really appreciate it if you would vote in the poll and share your comment.

I will share my opinion after I get some feedback. I don’t want to possibly prejudice the results by sharing my opinion first. You can read about the details of this controversy by clicking the the link below.

Jenna Talackova Disqualified from Pageant

In  male-to-female transgender sub-culture beauty pageants catering exclusively to transsexuals are very popular. They provide an outlet for transgender women to strut their stuff and celebrate their divine femininity for all to see and admire. Check out this clip from the most recent Miss International Queen (transsexual) beauty pageant! I’m sure you’ll be amazed at how stunningly beautiful we transgendered gals can be : )

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Dee
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Big Shemale Dating Profile Mistake – Don’t Do This!

Dating Profile Mistake1 Big Shemale Dating Profile Mistake   Dont Do This!It is hard to believe that there are still so many men making this huge shemale dating profile mistake.   Images showing body parts and/or cropped out faces are a huge turn-off.  The man in the photo above may be the nicest guy in the world but he will probably get no response to his dating profile. Whatever response he does get will be low quality and a reflection of the crappy image he chose to present.

I understand that there can be negative stigma attached to relationships with transgendered women, but if the risk of embarrassment and rediclule is so important,  that you can’t show your face on a dating profile then you should not be seeking to date a transgendered woman at all. 

Guys who are seriously interested in a relationship should understand that transgendered women don’t want to be anyone’s “dirty little secret”. We want to given the same respect and consideration that a genetic woman would be given and we want men who are strong and confident enough to show their faces and not give a damn about what other people may think about their relationship preference.

So if this describes you, then  post a picture of your face in your dating profile clearly showing your eyes and a big smile too : ) You’ll have a huge advantage over guys who have no photos or crappy ones. 

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Dee
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Shemale Dating: Women Are Attracted to Shemales Too!

Take a good look at the image of three beauties below…

ladies Shemale Dating: Women Are Attracted to Shemales Too!

They are members of TS Dating. However, they are NOT transsexuals. They are actually natural-born women who are interested in having a relationship with a shemale!

You see, we are so hot even women want us! Technically, a relationship between a woman and a Shemale would be considered lesbian. So what do women find attractive about us?

First of all, women can be just as intrigued and captivated by the combination of exquisite feminine beauty and the power of the male sex organ as you guys are. Yes indeed the mysterious “third sex” possessing the “best of both worlds” is quite alluring to both men and women.

Second, I believe that because women generally have a higher level of emotional development than men, many of them find us appealing because we tend be extremely emotionally connected as well. Most women desire emotional fulfillment in a relationship just as much if not more so, than sexual satisfaction. One of the biggest complaints women have about men is that they overly repress their emotions.

Finally, perhaps the most important aspect of attraction is that women can take advantage of our powerfully developed fashion sense and enjoy sharing shoes, outfits and makeup tips. LOL : ) that’s girl thing you guys will never understand hehehe : )~

Anyway guys, consider this message to be a friendly reminder to keep on top of your game because you’ve got some serious competition from the ladies : ) LOL!!!!!!!!

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Dee
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Does Dating Shemales Mean You are Gay (Homosexual)?

gay couple Does Dating Shemales Mean You are Gay (Homosexual)?You have found my site because you are attracted to shemales – transgendered women. There is something about a beautiful woman with a penis that intrigues you. You are scintillated by the thought having sex with her – sucking her, penetrating her anally or perhaps even being penetrated by her! Maybe your interest goes beyond sex and you actually desire to have a loving committed relationship as well.

So does this interest of yours mean that you are Gay? I know that at some point this is a thought crosses the mind of many men who are attracted to shemales therefore I decided to address this issue and give you my personal opinion.

Attraction to shemales absolutely does not NOT mean you are gay. Here is my rationale. Engaging a particular sex act is not indicative of sexual orientation. Anal sex, for example, is not exclusively a homosexual practice. It is popular with heterosexuals too as I mentioned in my previous posting. Engaging in anal sex or oral sex with a shemale from a passive position traditionally regarded as the “female role” has no relevance to sexual orientation either because they are merely physical forms of expression.

Sexual orientation is exclusively determined by the object of your psyhcological/sexual attraction. If you are attracted to a man, you’re a homosexual. If you are attracted to women, you’re heterosexual. If you are attracted to both sexes, you are bisexual. Regardless of the fact that shemales are genetically male from birth, our appearance, energy and essence is 100% female. Your attraction to us is based on our unique femininity so therefore if would fall under the category of heterosexual regardless of the specific sexual practices in which you may engage. Does this make sense? I hope it does.

As I mentioned, this is my opinion and I believe it is logical and intellectually sound. However, I must give you this warning. Most shemales that you will find on the shemale dating sites will not agree with my analysis. They want to be in a relationship in which they perform traditionally feminine roles and they want their men to perform traditionally masculine roles as a validation of their femininity. So if you were to meet a shemale who feels this way, and most do, you would have no chance of a successful relationship if she finds out you have an interest in performing traditionally feminine roles in sex. In her mind, you would be gay and it would be a complete turn-off.

This is why it is very important to know exactly what you want and be honest about it. If you want to engage in traditionally dominant or masculine roles during sex then identify yourself as a top. If the passive sexual practices interest you then identify yourself as versatile or bottom. The shemales who match your interest will find you and you can easily avoid embarrassing misunderstandings.

I hope this post helps you in your shemale dating efforts : )

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Dee
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Understanding Shemale Sexuality: Top, Bottom, Versatile

If you are seriously interested in a relationship with a Shemale you must understand the terms “top”, “bottom” and “versatile” with regard to sexual intercourse. Sexual intercourse with a shemale is anal intercourse with the exception of Shemales who have undergone sexual reassignment surgery (SRS). Such Shemales have surgically constructed vaginas with which they can engage in sexual intercourse. However, I will be discussing this matter from the point of view of a pre-op transsexual because I am a pre-op transsexual myself and according to the web poll on the right, the overwhelming majority of men who are interested in Shemales prefer Shemales who have a penis.

Most Shemales prefer to be “bottoms” during anal sex. The term bottom refers to someone who plays the passive or receptive roll during anal sex. “versatile” Shemales enjoy playing the passive and active roll during anal sex equally. In other words, a versatile Shemales would enjoy penetrating you anally in addition to being penetrated by you! Shemale “Tops” are the rarest of the three categories. Shemale tops only play the active roll during anal sex and thus expect their male partners to be totally comfortable with playing the passive roll exclusively.

I am sure you are wondering which category, yours truly, Deelicious Dee, falls under. I happen to be a versatile shemale. : )~

Now will show you examples of shemales from each category using TS Dating.

Chipicosa is a typical bottom shemale

Shemale Bottom Understanding Shemale Sexuality: Top, Bottom, Versatile

HeatherBrooke is a Top Shemale

Shemale Top Understanding Shemale Sexuality: Top, Bottom, Versatile

In this excerpt from her profile she says…

I WANT A COMPLETE STRONG MAN …(YOU HAVE TO BE A MAN …NOT A SISY LOL)BUT A COMPLETE BOTTOM IN BED

Nayla is a versatile TS

Shemale Versatile Understanding Shemale Sexuality: Top, Bottom, Versatile

In her profile she describes herself as…

SEXXXY HORNY TOP & BOTTOM, “AZTEC GODDESS”MISSTRES.

VersatileTS is another versatile shemale

Shemale Versatile Hot Understanding Shemale Sexuality: Top, Bottom, Versatile

She describes herself as…

sexy shemale who just so happens to enjoy the company of men!!!Versatile sexy and freaky, very open minded!!!

So now that you understand the meaning of top, bottom and versatile you have to decide which type of shemale interests you. Having a clear understanding of this will make it easier for you effectively focus on the type of shemale you want and avoid potentially embarrassing misunderstandings.

Some Shemales are highly sensitive about top, bottom, versatile sexuality. As I mentioned before, most Shemales are bottoms and want their male partners to be exclusively tops. Many shemale bottoms are completely turned off by versatile or bottom men. They feel that men who are versatile or bottoms are not as masculine as men who are tops or they just hate the idea of being anything other that a bottom during anal sex. I believe they are mistaken in this view but everyone has a right to their own opinion and preference.

In my opinion masculinity is not determined by ones like or dislike of playing the passive roll in anal sex. Some of my boyfriends have been the straightest, most masculine men you could imagine and they enjoyed be penetrated by me. : )~

In fact, anal sex has been steadily growing in popularity among heterosexual couples. Check this out…

 Understanding Shemale Sexuality: Top, Bottom, Versatile Understanding Shemale Sexuality: Top, Bottom, Versatile

So have you decided whether you want a bottom, top or versatile shemale? After you decide, you can find her at TS Dating!

Hugs & Kisses,

Dee

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Shemale Dating: Pre-op vs Post-op SRS

Please take a look a the following TS Dating member profile photos and their corresponding captions.

28y/o Pre-op transsexual
davita Shemale Dating: Pre op vs Post op SRS
POST OP GIRL
jadelooking Shemale Dating: Pre op vs Post op SRS

Davita, pictured in the first photo is a pre-op transsexual. Pre-op is transsexual lingo which means she has not undergone sexual reassignment surgery (SRS) to remove her penis and construct a vagina. So simply stated, Davita is a pretty chick with a dick.

Jade, pictured in the second photo is a Post-Op transsexual. She had sexual resassingment surgery to contruct a vagina and therefore does not have a penis.

While it is impossible to know the exact figure, I would say that 5 – 10 percent all male-to-female transsexuals have had sexual reassignment surgey. They feel that having a surgically contructed vagina is essential to their psychological well-being. The rest of us, myself included, are content with keeping our male genitalia intact and thereby have the “best of both worlds” so to speak.

When considering dating transsexual females, it is important to know what you want in terms of SRS status. Do you want a “chick with a dick” or does it not matter to you? On TS Dating you will find three type of transsexuals – Post-OP, Pre-Op (no intention of having SRS) and Pre-Op transsexuals who will eventually have sexual reassignment surgery sometime in the future. Knowing exactly what you want will help you effectively focus your efforts avoiding confusion and misunderstandings.

I am a Pre-Op transsexual and will never have sexual reassignment surgery. From my experience the true mystique of transsexuals revoloves around our status a the “third sex” possessing the “best of both worlds” in terms of our sexuality.

So what do you think? I would like to know if you perfer Post-Op or Pre-Op transsexuals. Please participate in my poll which you will find in the right margin if you have not already done so. I would love to know what you think!

I would also like to know if you’d prefer to date a shemale with artificial breasts or a shemale with natural breasts even if they are small. Feel free to leave a comment below. Thank you in advance for sharing your thoughts!

Hugs & Kisses,

Dee

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PC Airlines First to Feature Transsexual Ladyboys AKA Shemales

Wow! This is a wonderful story that really touches my heart. Transsexualism is about to reach new heights of awareness and acceptance with PC Airlines!

PC Airlines, based out of Thailand, will soon take to the skies and be the first airline to feature male-to-female transsexual flight attendants. In Thailand these transsexuals are known as ladyboys and their exquisite beauty is legendary.

I hope you have your passport up to date because I’m sure you’re going to want to fly with PC Airlines as soon as possible : )

Read the full story by clicking the image below.

PC Air Ladyboys PC Airlines First to Feature Transsexual Ladyboys AKA Shemales

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Dee
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