Wishing You Shemale Dating Success in 2014!

2014 Wishing You Shemale Dating Success in 2014!In the few hours remaining of 2013 I’d like to take this opportunity to wish everyone a happy and prosperous New Year! I hope you make those resolutions and make them all count for the new year.

I know that making new year resolutions is somewhat of a cliche these days because most people manage to break them in a matter of days, hours, minutes or even seconds after the clock strikes midnight : ).

For me it is quite different. This will always be a special time of great significance for me because at this time over 20 years ago I made a sacred resolution to abondon my life as a male and fully embrace the divine femininity within me and forever change my destiny.

What about you? Will you pursue a relationship with a shemale lover with a similar degree of seriousness? I hope so. Now is a great time to explore and fulfill this desire within you. Transsexauality is becoming increasingly accepted and respected in our society and relationships with transsexuals no longer need to anyone’s “dirty little secret”.

So go ahead an boldly pursue you desires. The shemale lover of your dreams may only be a mouse click away.

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Dee
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Shemale Dating: Rappers Dating Shemales

The other day I was searching YouTube for music videos and somehow I came across some videos about rappers dating shemales. I am not really into the rap music genre but sense I am  transgendered it piqued my interest and I watched it.

The author of the video clearly has a negative bias with regard to rappers dating shemales because the idea of rappers having a relationship with shemales was placed in the context of being a “dirty little secret” of the rap industry.

Of course I fully reject such a negative connotation. If rappers want to date shemales then so be it and more power to them! There is nothing to be ashamed about.

In the video the author only speculates about whether certain individuals are shemales based on their appearance and does not know with 100% certainty. As a transgendered female I can tell you some of the individuals in the video definitely are transgendered. A transgendered know another transgender when she sees one : ).  Anyway, I would love to know what you think.

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Dee

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Jackie Green Transgender Miss England Beauty Pageant Finalist Makes History

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Here is a truly inspirational story about a post-op transgender woman, Jackie Green, who has made history as England’s first prospective transgender beauty queen! Wow, that almost sounds poetic : ). Nineteen year old Jackie Green is currently a finalist in the Miss England Beauty Pageant and she overcame tremendous adversity to get there!

Jackie Green was born as Jack Green who suffered from severe gender identity issues as a young boy. Jack Green was psychologically and spiritually female but incarnated in a male body. This caused such painful emotional trauma that Jack attempted to commit suicide numerous times. His life was saved when his parents initiated gender reassignment therapy for him just before the onset of puberty.

Now Jackie Green is a strikingly beautiful transgender woman who is a prominent activist and advocate for transgender people worldwide! Her position as the first Miss England Beauty Pageant finalist provides her with powerful leverage to raise awareness of transgender related issues.

You can learn more about Jackie Green by reading the article at the link below:

Jackie Green Becomes Miss England Beauty Pageant Finalist

I highly recommend that you study the article very carefully. It will give you valuable insights and heighten you sensitivity about transsexualism which will be very advantageous for shemale dating because shemales love to date guys who are knowledgeably about transsexualism.

Although I am very happy about Jackie Green’s personal triumphs and her positive efforts as a transgender activist, I don’t don’t believe that transgendered women should be allowed to compete with natural born women in beauty pageants. I know that my opinion on this issue may seem quite surprising since I am also a transgendered woman but if you would like to know why I feel this way you should read my comment regarding the Jenna Talackova controversy.

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Dee
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Shemale Porn Danger – Don’t Be a Victim

Danger Shemale Porn Danger   Dont Be a VictimShemale porn is a popular way for men who are attracted to shemales but don’t have sexual access to an actual shemale, to gain sexual gratification by experiencing their shemale sexual fantasies through the actors in the porno movie. Occasionally indulging in a Shemale porno movie can provide a healthy release of pent up sexual urges. However, the danger lies in the addictive nature of pornography.

Shemale porn provides visual, auditory stimuli that triggers a pleasurable sexual response as pleasure inducing chemicals such as dopamine are released in the brain. If someone is exposed to shemale porn too often they become desensitized to the stimulus provided and they require new forms of stimulus to gain gratification. (This is the same principle as how repeatedly listening to a popular song can make it seem boring.) The new forms of stimulus will most likely be new shemale porno movies with different actors or scenes. This is why porno addicts can easily have collections of porno movies that number in the hundreds or even more!

A man who watches shemale porn will typically masturbate until ejaculation. Repeated masturbation and ejaculation to shemale porn can severely lower a persons libido to the point of impotence due to desensitization to sensory stimulus as well a physical exhaustion from masturbating. This condition can be so severe that the victim finds it very difficult or even impossible to be sexually stimulated by a real person because she can’t compete with the imagery of the porno movies.

Please be careful and don’t let shemale pornography rob you of the pleasures you can experience with a real shemale. Thanks to Internet technology finding a shemale for real sex is as easy as clicking the mouse.  If you seriously desire to experience shemale sex, forget about porn and check out  YourShemaleSexDate.com and make your fantasies come true.

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Dee
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Shemale Dating: Would You Like Ashlyn Parram to be Your Prom Date?

Ashlyn Parram 111x300 Shemale Dating: Would You Like Ashlyn Parram to be Your Prom Date?If you were in High School, would you have Ashlyn Parram as your prom date? The photo to the right is Ashlyn Parram as an 11 year old boy. He was a cute boy but I have a feeling that you would not be interested in having him as your prom date. The photo below is Ashlyn Parram at the age of 16 dressed as a girl asserting her female identity and femininity. Would you take her to the prom? If you are interested in dating shemales, the answer would probably be yes!

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Ashlyn is in the early stages of gender transformation from a boy to a girl. She has been scheduled by physicians to begin female hormone therapy that will give her a more feminine appearance. In the photo above she already looks great and as she progresses in hormone therapy my prediction is that she will easily become a sexy shemale “bombshell”.

Ashlyn caused a bit of controversy when she decided to come to school dress as a girl. Her story reminds me of the drama an heartaches I experienced when I was her age. You can learn more about Ashlyn at the link below. Reading stories about transgender individuals like Ashlyn will give you a better understanding of transgender issues which in turn will aid you in your Shemale Dating efforts.

Transsexual, 16, forces school to let him sit exam dressed as a girl: Head threatened with Equality Act

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Shemale Sex Dating: Do You Want to Date a Shemale for Sex Only?

Bedroom Eyes Shemale Sex Dating: Do You Want to Date a Shemale for Sex Only?I placed a poll on this site to determine the percentage of men who are interested in shemales for serious romantic relationships vs. those who are only interested in shemale sex dating or dating a shemale for sex only. The results of the poll after a few weeks showed that over 60% of men were interested dating shemales for a relationship. As of today that percentage has dropped to about 47% and the percent of men interested shemale sex dating is around 33%. That leaves 20% of men in the undecided category. My intuition tells me that most of the men in the undecided category would probably be more interested in dating shemales for sex also.

Although I created this site to to provide advice to men who are interested in dating shemales to form a romantic a relationship, I am realistic enough to understand that a serious relationship is simply not practical for many people for a wide variety of reasons. However, sexual needs and desires don’t disappear just because one is not in a relationship. I can personally relate to this fact.

When I was in my early 20′s it seemed impossible for me to find a guy who was interested in having a real relationship with me. This was very difficult for me because I am a hopeless romantic at heart. So after many failed attempts I gave up on the idea of finding the love of my life and became very jaded. However, because my sexual energy was very strong, I needed to find ways release it and doing so by myself just wasn’t enough therefore I engaged in sex dating.

I was very selective with regard to the men I dated for sex. I did it honestly and responsibly and had many exciting and fulfilling sexual encounters as a result. Now I am blessed to be in a wonderful relationship with a great guy and sometimes when I reminisce about my wild sex dating experiences, I have no regrets. It was the right thing for me to do at that time of my life.

So if you are interested in dating shemales for sex, go ahead and do it. There are many shemales who are interesting sex dating as well. Make sure you are honest and responsible and never make the mistake of pretending to want to be in a relationship when all you really want is sex because that will give you bad karma.

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Dee
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Shemale Dating: Is Lady Gaga a Shemale Hermaphrodite?

Lady Gaga Shemale Dating: Is Lady Gaga a Shemale Hermaphrodite?You won’t find Lady Gaga on any Shemale Dating Sites, but she just might be a hermaphrodite.  Rumors have be circulating on the Internet for quite some time claiming that Lady Gaga is a hermaphrodite. Just in case you don’t know, here is the dictionary definition of hermaprodite.

1. an individual in which reproductive organs of both sexes are present.

2. Biology. an organism, as an earthworm or plant, having normally both the male and female organs of generation.

3. a person or thing in which two opposite qualities are combined.

The first definition is the one that most accurately describes Lady Gaga if she is in fact a hermaphrodite. She would possess a penis and a vagina and thus be a natural born Shemale or “chick with a dick” to put it bluntly.

The rumors began flying after one of Lady Gaga’s performances, in which she had an “accident” resulting in the exposure of something odd between her legs. Was it a penis? You’ll have to decide for yourself.

Watch the video below and pay close attention when Lady Gaga dismounts the motorcycle.

Actress Jamie Lee Curtis is also rumored to be a hermaphrodite. According to rumors her parents had her surgically altered as child so that she could live her life as a normal woman. The video clip below shows a famous scene from the movie True Lies in which Jamie performs a sizzling hot strip tease.

Whether or not Lady Gaga and Jamie Lee Curtis are hermaphrodites, the fact remains that hermaprodites exisit and you just might encouter them on shemale dating sites like TS Dating.

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Dee

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Shemale Dating – What’s the Difference Between a Cross-Dresser and a Shemale

Cross Dresser Shemale Dating   Whats the Difference Between a Cross Dresser and a ShemaleI was just scanning some of the profiles on a transsexual dating site  and I came across one that was very interesting. The profile was of a male cross-dresser named Jessy and I decided that Jessy’s profile would present and excellent opportunity to explain the difference between a cross-dresser and a shemale. Here is an excerpt from Jessy’s profile:

hello my name is jessy i am part time cross-dresser I do not take any hormones. I do not want to be a woman. Most of the Time i am a regular guy. I would like to know other girls tv or CDs. I am very friendly. I like to wear sexy clothes, lingerie, stockings and high heels all kinds of boots and sexy dresses. I go out sometimes but not always. I’d like to meet people like me I consider myself straight I feel no attraction to the male body

First of all, I have to say that Jessy has a fine looking feminine body for someone who considers himself to be a “regular guy” and his butt is absolutely gorgeous.  A lot of shemales would kill to have a butt like that and even I’m kind of jealous : )~

Anyway Jessy’s profile description is the epitome of what a cross-dresser is. Generally speaking most cross-dressers are heterosexuals who live their lives a typical guy except for their interest in dressing up as a female at various times. They derive erotic psychological pleasure from dressing as women. I can totally understand this. Female fashion is so much more diverse and erotically alluring than male fashion.

Shemales on the other hand are born  male but engage in a process to transform themselves into transgendered women and live the rest of their lives that way.

There are cross-dressers who are homosexual and unfortunately some of them like to pretended to be shemales to trick guys who are interested in dating  shemales. So to avoid confusion and potentially embarrassing situations don’t be afraid to ask someone if they self-identify as a transgender female and not a cross-dresser. I’d say most of the time you’ll be able tell without asking because most cross-dressers are not passable as female but just in case there is any doubt, it does not hurt to ask.

If you happen to have an interest in cross-dressing and/or would like to meet cross-dressers, there is nothing at all wrong with that.  You can easily find them a DateACrossdresser.com.

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Dee
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Dating Older Shemales – Challenges Faced by Older Transsexuals Exposed in Transamerica

Transamerica 210x300 Dating Older Shemales   Challenges Faced by Older Transsexuals Exposed in TransamericaI am sure you have a heard stories about middle-aged men engulfed in mid-life crisis paranoia desperately seeking to regain the excitement of youth by various means such as hair replacement therapy, botox treatments working out and buying an expensive sports car so that they can attract gorgeous young women half their age. This kind of activity has almost become a cliche in our society for both middle-aged men and women who are called “sugar daddys” or “cougars” respectively.

In rare instances the male mid-life crises manifests itself by men realizing that they are really women who have been trapped in a male body their entire lives and they embark on a mission to become the woman they were always meant to be.

Initiating transsexual transition later in life is fraught with challenges. For many reasons it is much more difficult for older men to successfully make the transgender transformation and become aesthetically passable as women than it is for those who begin the transition early in life.

There is a very good movie called Transamerica that does an excellent job of exposing the plight of older transsexuals as well as the issues facing transsexuals in general. I highly recommend that you watch Transamerica because you will learn a lot about transsexualism in a fun, touching and entertaining way. As I have mentioned before, if you are serious about dating transgender women, investing some time to learn about transsexualism and transgender issues will give you a huge advantage over guys who don’t.

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Dee
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Jenna Talackova Will Be Allowed To Compete in Miss Universe – Canada

After throwing a hissy fit about being disqualified from competing in Miss Universe Canada Jenna Talackova hired  super heavyweight lawyer, Gloria Allred, to intimidate Donald Trump into allowing her to compete. Her plan has apparently been successful and Miss Universe Canada officials released a statement tentatively conceding that Jenna will be allowed to compete. This is a good time for me share my opinion on this affair. You can read the full story by clicking  here.

First, I offer thanks to everyone that voted in the Jenna Talackova poll and especially those to took the time share a comment. Now, what I am about to say is going to be a big surprise to everyone because my feelings are contrary to popular opinion. I have been a rebel and non-conformist all my life and I am not going to change now.

The pageant was justified in its original decision to disqualify Jenna. Why? Because Jenna is NOT A WOMAN, PERIOD! I as a transsexual myself I have too much love and admiration for divine femininity and my genetic female sisters to accept the notion that a transsexual should ever be considered equivalent to a natural born woman – the bearer of life. Natural born femininity is something we long for, but can never truly achieve.  As much as we feel like women, look like women  and  sound like women, at the end of day we are NOT women.  We’re certainly not men either although our genetic composition is male.  We are different! We are in a unique nether world in between the the male to female polarities and I believe that is something very beautiful and worthy of celebrating in an of itself. Therefore, I cannot and do not support Jenna Talackova in this matter.

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Dee
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